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5 Keys to Finding Meaning in Your Life

beben-eleben:

Life can often become cluttered with one to-do list after another, an endless string of tasks needing completion. In all this hustle and bustle, it’s easy to get lost, wondering what the whole purpose behind it all is. Almost every person goes through some kind of soul searching at one point in their lives. They look for meaning in their actions, hoping that knowledge of their purpose will give them added enjoyment and motivation. While finding a meaning in your life can’t be put down to a simple sentence, there are some keys to finding it.

The Search Matters

Everyone is different from each other. We each have different goals, unique desires, and varied values in our lives. There is no single pattern set for somebody to find meaning in their life. Recognize that you do have a purpose and that you’ll need to walk your own path to find it. Also know that it’s up to you, not someone else, to make that journey of discovery. Sometimes simply taking part in that search is enough to give your life meaning.

Out of the Comfort Zone

It’s easy to become stuck in familiar routines. Often we have a set schedule that gives our lives a rigid structure. As is commonplace, we develop a comfort zone, one that provides a sense of security and reassurance but doesn’t bring much in the way of variety or excitement. Stepping outside our comfort zones is one important way to find added meaning in our lives. That doesn’t mean we have to do anything crazy, but doing things we’re not at first comfortable with opens up a new range of opportunities we can take advantage of.

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20 Things to Stop Letting People Do to You

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  1. Stop letting people drag you into needless arguments. – Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who have proven that they are committed to misunderstanding you.  And don’t define your intelligence or self-worth by the number of arguments you have won, but by the number of times you have said, “This needless nonsense is not worth my time!”
  2. Stop letting people drown you with their negativity. – Positivity is a choice.  Choose wisely.  Be smart enough to walk away from the negativity around you… it is never worth your while, ever.
  3. Stop letting people make you feel ashamed of your scars. – Scars remind us that our past is real, and that we have grown beyond it.  Every scar has a story.  Don’t be afraid to tell it and own it.
  4. Stop listening to those who berate you for your honest mistakes. – To grow strong and wise, you must have the courage to make mistakes.  Allow yourself to be a beginner.  No one starts off being excellent.
  5. Stop letting others blind you from YOUR truth. – Today, the only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday.  Prove yourself to yourself, not others.  
  6. Stop letting people bully you. – Bullying is not OK.  Period.  There is no freedom on Earth that gives someone the right to assault who you are as a person.  Sadly, some people just won’t be happy until they’ve pushed your ego to the ground and stomped on it.  What you have to do is have the nerve to stand your ground.  Don’t give them any leeway.  Nobody has the power to make you feel small unless you give them that power.
  7. Stop letting friends be untrue to you. – What is a true friend?  Someone who loves you just the way you are, but still inspires you to be a better person.  BE a true friend to others, and keep only true friends close to you.
  8. Stop letting the same people lie to you over and over again. – If someone fools you once, shame on them.  If someone fools you twice, shame on you.  If you catch someone lying to you, speak up.  Some people will lie to you repeatedly in a vicious effort to get you to repeat their lies over and over until they effectively become true.  Don’t partake in their nonsense.  Don’t let their lies be your reality.

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misspluviophile:

so much for being in a relationship

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beben-eleben:

This is the realest shit ever said by a cartoon character

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How to Succeed at School

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1. Get into the habit of being an early riser. We can all benefit from having a little bit of extra time in the morning. It reduces stress, helps to prevent you from forgetting things, and stops that crazy morning rush.

2. Deliberately decide to tune out…

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lilpusherlovergirl:

horror movies that begin with “based on a true story”

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How to be Confident Without Being Arrogant

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1. Be approachable – Someone who’s standoffish, or likes to keep their distance, tends to make other people feel uncomfortable. But if you’re warm and friendly, and have open body language, you’ll help other people to feel much more at ease.

2. Be natural and…

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How to Cope with Feelings of Loneliness

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1. Remember that we all feel lonely at times – and many feel lonely a lot of the time.

2. Find something you enjoy and that interests you. Being absorbed in your passion can change the way you feel.

3. Don’t think that sex will help to fill the…

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“I’d love to wake up next to you. I’d love to watch you while you are still sound asleep, oblivious to the sun rising and the morning routines of our neighbors. I’d gently trace your nose line and lips with my fingers and smile at your perfection. Then you’d gently open your eyes and I’d be perfectly happy knowing that it’s my face you first saw. You’d squint at the brightness then focus on me, as if you are memorizing my every detail. You’d tell me that you like what you see and I would blush. You’d kiss me, not minding that we still have not brushed our teeth yet. I would tell you I love you and you’d tell me that you love me more. We would just lay there for a while and watch the sun move to its rightful position in the sky. I’d sigh, perfectly contented and satisfied and you’d look at me and say, “I love waking up to mornings like this. I love you.””

My idea of a good morning (via ailandre)

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beben-eleben:

Oh My Gulay

811 Comments | 3 months ago

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